Friday, December 13, 2013

Hillary's "Mommy Must Haves"


When my sister had her baby she did a blog post about her “mommy must haves.”  She and I have since talked about the different things that do and don’t work for each us and our babies.  So here is a list of my “mommy must haves” and why they have worked for us:

1.  Nipple shield- This little device has made life SO much easier for Audrey and I with breastfeeding.  She had a hard time with feedings when we were still in the hospital but when the lactation consultant gave us this it was pretty much smooth sailing.  If your baby has a hard time breastfeeding look into getting one of these to help him or her start out.  We were lucky to get ours free from the hospital but they are between $5 and $10 at Target in the baby section.

I was thinking I wouldn’t post a picture of it but then decided that if this blog is for info and support for moms I might as well be as un-shy as possible. (don't worry though, we wont get too explicit)

2.  White noise- This has been a complete life saver.  It amazes us every time we use it.  When Audrey is having a particularly hard time and we can’t figure out what to do (which happened a lot while she was colicky), we turn this on and within minutes (sometimes seconds) she is either asleep or calm enough for us to help her.  It’s seriously like magic.  I was able to demonstrate this magic when my friend Kelsey was over one night and she was very surprised at how quickly it worked.  It’s especially been very helpful when Audrey is hungry but too upset to eat.  That’s such a hard situation because we know what will make her feel better but she can’t calm down enough for it.  Enter this white noise video.  She slowly calms down, eats, and emerges from her meal a very happy girl.  I highly recommend trying it.



3.  Baby bath- We went without one for awhile but life became a lot easier when we got one.  We really like it because it helps us feel more confident while bathing Audrey.  She always is SO slippery with the soap on her and it scares me think of something bad happening.  I know other moms who don’t feel the need for it, but it’s been a must have for us.

about $20 at Walmart.  ours is blue :) 
4.  Mobile- This has been another lifesaver- for our arms and backs.  For awhile the only way Audrey was okay with being out down was in her crib under the mobile.  I wish we had set it up sooner than we did.  We just had no idea how much she would love it.  It keeps her entertained longer than anything else, which allows me to get stuff done around the house.  And the cuteness of her talking and laughing at the animals is another major plus.


5.  Baby seat/bed- I don’t even know what this is really called but we refer to it as “the yellow thing.”  This is also Audrey’s bed.  We can drag it from room to room but at night it’s right next to our bed.  When she starts to stir and get upset at night I can just reach over half asleep and rock her back to sleep in it.  I also bring it in the kitchen sometimes (when the mobile is not doing it for her) and give her some toys.  She’ll sit contentedly for a little while.  And sometimes ‘a little while’ is enough for me to get something done.  It’ll be pretty sad when she gets too big for it.  (couldn't find a picture because I don't know what it's called!)

6.  Swaddlers- Swaddling with a blanket is important to learn, but these make it easy to do and harder for baby to bust out of.  These little things are great.  You wrap your baby up nice and tight in it and it helps them calm down and feel cozy.  I’ve heard that the tighter the better because it helps them, especially newborns, remember being in the womb where it was warm and compact.  Not to mention how much easier they are to carry without limbs flying and falling everywhere.  There have been times where Audrey was screaming as loud as she could and once we wrapped her up she was able to calm down.  There is a video called “The Happiest Baby on the Block” where this and other techniques are used to trigger what they call the “calming reflex” in babies.  It’s a good video, definitely check it out if your baby is colicky or just having a hard time.

7.  Saline drops and bulb syringe- Audrey had some breathing issues when she was born and part of it had to do with mucus build up, I believe.  The bulb syringe is something I think every mom knows about, but Saline drops are less well known.  What it does is help thin the mucus so that it drips out or comes out much more easily with the bulb syringe.  So very helpful when baby is congested.


So those are a few of the main things that have helped me in motherhood so far.  Obviously as Audrey gets bigger this list will probably completely change (right now Audrey is 4 months old and some of them have already become obsolete), but so far these are the things that have helped us keep our baby girl happy and healthy.  

What are some of your "mommy must haves?"

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